Explain this....

Re: Explain this....

If a woman gets a bad husband and he just won't change, she does have the right for peace too. Of course you have a better chance of going to heaven by doing sabr and remain in a terrible situation. But we also have the right to stand up for ourselves, given we aren't doing something wrong or standing up for ourselves in the wrong way.

A woman who works can still be liberated, it depends on the situation. If you have to depend on a person who only brings you down, treats you very bad, doesn't even get everything in the house that is needed, then leaving and getting your own job so you have your own money and don't depend on that bad person anymore and now have alhamdulilah just enough for a decent life (in peace, because now the bad person isn't there to mistreat you in any way), than it really is a liberation.

But of course, a woman with a good husband going to work without necessity and without the GOOD husbands permission, isn't liberated. I see necessity as the husband not earning enough to support them, or the children being older and mother not really needed to take care of them so she has nothing to do now, doing work in Islam or in other ways to help people.