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Guy starts work at a new job in Karachi.
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Guy meets Girl who is also working there
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Guy and Girl fall in love.
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Guy and Girl get married.
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Guy asks Girl to leave job and become housewife.
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what's there to explain?
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aahhh... complications?? ...
....it should be like that \/...
- Guy starts work at a new job in Karachi.
- Guy meets Girl who is also working there
- Guy and Girl fall in love. 4. Guy asks Girl to leave job and become housewife. 5. Guy and Girl get married.
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- Guy starts work at a new job in Karachi.
- Guy meets Girl who is also working there
- Guy and Girl fall in love.
- Guy and Girl get married.
- Guy asks Girl to leave job and become housewife.
- Girl places a real hot 'side kick' right on his face before leaving him and his house.
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you really don’t wanna get married TNWB:D
j/k
stress reduces the chances to become pregnant…i guess the guy wants a baby:blush:
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Exactly, whats there to explain Maddy? not every guy likes a working wife, and there’s nothing wrong with being a house wife. They should’ve talked about it b4 getting married though.
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Then why marry a working girl?
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I say it is the girl's fault if she is unhappy now.
As a working woman she should have get this resolved before falling in love or at least before getting married.
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I agree, but they fell in “love”
they should’ve gotten this resolved before marriage.
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Well, it’s a swell arrangement…
Most of the girls who are under the spell of the great lie called the ‘liberated women’, will opt for work…Why? Because she doesn’t know any better…
For her, the idea is that, a working woman is a liberated woman…True…But it doen’t mean she is a smart woman…In fact she is a real dumb woman…She believes that her ‘liberation’ is far more important than taking care of the house…
Well, many winos and junkies believe that by living on the streets and eating out of garbage cans is a real means of freedom and liberation…Does that make them smart? Obviously not…
In your arrangement MS, it’s ideal…The man becomes the bread earner and the wife becomes the bread maker…Both make their ends of their life complete by complementing each other’s duties…
The man works outside and earns to keep the house running and the woman works inside and raises a family to keep the house running…
If both are outside, who is in charge of the house?
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Lajawab bhaijaan.. no woman wants to work.. trust me on that.. who in their right mind would want to go to work every day of the week.. 12 months of the year? women are smarter than what you'd give them credit for.
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If you look closely there is gap between 4 and 5. I would say at
4.3 she got pregnant
and at
5. I am sure, the Guy asks Girl to leave job and become housewife, pretty simple.
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May be…
- Guy want her undividable attention
- Guy want to enjoy for sometime(like couple of years)
- Guy does not want to look like a newly married couple at work.(dont want to get kicked out Together)
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I dont c wats wrong with asking her to quit working.. 
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insufficient information. We don't know the reaons behind why the guy is asking her to quit work.
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Stupid guy, if I were him, I would have told her kay I quit my job.. now u earn :P
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I have a issue people telling me something to do. Its my damn life i will do whatever i want to do. I ask my self this question every now and then. Why does girl has to do what guy tells her? All our lives are we simply suppose to listen to rules and orders given to us by our fathers, brothers and husbands. What about us? what about what we want from our live?
What shocks me girls have no problem with it. Even here on gupshup "i am doing this cause my husband asked me to do so". I mean what the fudge what about you. What do you want to do? I seriously dont think doing house work is a such a big deal i love cooking and i can make awesome food in matter of 1 hr - 2 hrs. I dont create it as a big headache. Girls you are impossible...
These issues should have been discussed before shadi... now i call this climax time...
It should be girl's decision...... now all of you can go astagfriullah toba nia... blah and blah
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sara - what about your happiness? Do you really feel to kill your desires or wishes for others will make youhappy?
if thats the case i am sorry you are very sad and you need a hug...