but i was talking from one perspective.. fo someone born/raised in US who is not allowed to go away for education. and it was the same for my bro as well... maybe u can say well we weren't smart enough to get into the good schools so it doesn't matter, but maybe....eh whatever..chahdo
and actually…there is not one single person i know in my family in pakistan (sirf hum hi shareef walay reh gaye hain ) who has dormed. in fact, just getting BA was a huge accomplishment for many of my cousins.
none of my cousins (here in US) have gone on to do much in terms of education and career. at least not what is deemed “respectable” in the typical desi sense. Only one who is a freshman at a univ in upstate NY.
BY this december…ill be the first college graduate..InshALLAH
Aozo Billahy Minashytanu Rajeem,
**Well Allah ka shukar hy ky first year main jab dakhla howa or khatra tha ky hostel main thehrna pary ga tu bas dill dehalta tha soch ker bhi Ky Hamari Phopo ky zamany ki warden chali a rahi thi wahan ki. **
**Jis ki sakhti or jabar zulam,(zulm kam lagy ga yahan) Hajaj Bin Yousuf type ki thi. **
**Main ny ro ro ker bura hal ker liya ky os warden ky sath mera guzara nahi ho sakta:hinna: patt anahi tha ky osi warden numa sas nandin milain gi tu kaise sahon gi:teary3: ** Any way Allah ky hukam sy hamary liy Van ka intizam ho giya or ham ny kah avan na bhi hu to koi bat nahi ham bus per aai jain gy. Kerna khuda ka kiya howa ky meri aik dost Anni ka science ka practical tha os ghreeb ko kafi dyr thehrna para or ham sab Van main wapis a gain akyli woh safar nahi ker sakti thi tu ty howa woh aj rat hostel main thehr jay gi. Agly din hamary sath wapis. Woh ghareeb hostel main thheri tu agly din jab main Library ko ja rahi thi free period main she was runing to me. Sar jhar munh phar howanaq si bani hoi. Main ny dill main socha Allah khyr larkion ky hostel main hi thehri thi larkon ky tu nahi yeh hal Kaise:aq: By chari mery galy lag ker phoot phoot ker rony lagi. Hay guuddi main sari rat nahi so saki. Main ny pocha Howa kiya koi jin bhoot dykh liy:aq: kehny lagi nahi. Aik kony main ly ja ker boli rat kemry main do beds they mujhy dosri larki ky sath share kerna para. Raat ko meri ankh achanak khuli tu saheli ghaib thi or dosry bed sy ajeeb ajeeb:cb: si awazin nikal rahi thin. Main ny kha Pumi tum kahan hu. (2nd year student thi pumi) Woh boli yahin hon mat ghbrao. Main nykaha yeh awazin kaisi hain tu donon hansny lagin or pumi ny dosri bed sharing larki ko batya ky bywaquf hy buhat yeh. Yeh kah aor phoo tphoot ker rony lagi. Main hon magar itni bywaquf bhi nahi. Main pehly tu pryshan hoi phir bas:rotfl: thi main ny kaha mujhy tu lag raha hy tumhary sath bhi koi aysi waisi harkat ki hai unhon ny:Woh boli nahi sari raat isi dar sy mujhy neend na ai ky kahin woh dono mujhy join na ker lain:D I said bywaquf shukar karo tumhari izat bach gai ainda aysi larkion sy hushiyar rehna. Os ky bad os ny sicnce hi chor di ky phir dobar ana rukna per jay practical ky pichy or koi anhoni ho jaay:wink:
besides the fact that you started the entry with Auzu billah and besides the fact that it took me long enough to understand the urdu words with that spelling… it was worth reading it
Woh dar gai thi shaid main hoti tu main bhi dar jati magar shor zaroor macha dyti ky warden sahiba yeh dykhu tumhary zulmat kady main kiya ho raha hy:D