Expensive gifts from relatives, fair or unfair?

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Re: Expensive gifts from relatives, fair or unfair?

@Roshni

whereas when mum goes to my younger chachoos house (they live in my granddads house), his wife is always in need of new kitchen accessories, even minor things like trays or dishes even spoons. they are not poor infact earning alot and have property as well. mum gets so angry as if someone comes for a visit and she doesnt have gud stuff at home, it will affect my dada jee’s izaat. so she ends up buy for her.. when mum goes to do her shopping of clothes she has to buy for her too as she is always in very old outfit and her kids too. infact mum was saying that my cousin didnt had lotion to apply on her face and her skin was so bad and i asked her y u dont look after your skin she said my lotion that u gave last time is finished nw.

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Isn’t that overdoing it? That’s what I don’t like, why do people tolerate such behaviour? No one is obligated to send money unless it is to their parents or unaffording relatives. Pretending to be poor just to get money is disgusting!