Re: Expecting romantic love from an arranged marriage?
flowers, cards, movies, long drives etc are about courtship. this is not romance, but the path to discovering it, the one on which you an quickly make a u-turn and run if the girl turns out to be a clingy psycho or something.
now after you have gone and married someone, i don’t see the point of this stuff. isn’t getting married way more of a romantic gesture than stupid long drives and cards?
i think bollywood has really warped your ideas on what romance really is. 