Re: Expecting romantic love from an arranged marriage?
That post of mine was a reply to queer for his smart a$$ comment. Now please help me understand WHY are YOU taking it personally?!
What part of “i had like to believe…” you guys can’t understand. I am not saying this is what the truth is or this is what is gonna be the case with all, its just a
feeling i have.
Anyways, I’ll try to explain the reason why i think it is so…well it’s like the more you know a person, the more frank you are with them and you tend to take them
for granted. You have done the flowers, cards, movies, going on long drives and all that bit even before marriage so i would assume that they won’t hold that much
importance after marriage. Where as, in an arrange marriage its like a process you get to know each other first and then these small gestures perhaps hold more meaning
and help you to build your bond stronger. I could be wrong and maybe you can get unlucky and don’t end up liking the person you have got married to but that is beyond
anyone’s control whether in love or arranged marriage.