Expecting romantic love from an arranged marriage?

Re: Expecting romantic love from an arranged marriage?

I didnt believe I was turning, twisting and mocking.

Ive heard enough people say this stuff about un-arranged marriage to understand that for some reason romanec would be less, or less exciting after an un-arranged marriage takes place.

I just want to understand where this notion comes from.

I was certainly not arranged (and there are many couples on this board who were not) and I dont see any of us saying that romance was any less exciting than it was for an arranged couple. What do even use to measure such feelings or notions?

Again, no mocking or twisting. Just would like to understand where these “facts” come from