Expecting romantic love from an arranged marriage?

[ZareenKhan]

Re: Expecting romantic love from an arranged marriage?

@Le_Pakistan

It really is the same as some people think that in an arranged marriage the love can never meet up to the standard of the love that is in a love marriage.

It’s a very…naive way of thought.

How would they know?

And the circle is round.

:k: ROTFLOL!

That was quite a “karak” …jawab ;).

I just can’t believe some people. They talk about being all “open minded” and how desis back home are so backward and what not but seriously atleast reading the stuff most of the “foreign” desis write, i am just left thinking that they are quite narrow minded. It’s just so damn hard for them to take a contrasting opinion and its not like they will be up for a good argument, for them their opinion= the truth and everything else is nonsense. And i must say they are great in assuming things, reading between the lines and eventually taking just negativity out of whatever is being said. I don’t think i owe anyone any explaination because my post was pretty explainatory but i guess we have alot of duffers here on this forum so maybe reposting my post will help them understand it better;

@ZareenKhan

well i had think it is quite obvious that once u get married there wl be some romance unless u 2 were forced into the marriage! actually i’d like to believe that the romance would be even more special in an arranged married cuz unlike love marriage, u have not been there done all that romance b4.

I am sure if you are in love/relationship before marriage, there would be romance between the two of you hence my ^ comment based on it. There is no rocket sciene needed to figure this out! And i am sure the ones who have been married, they would understand it even better but i guess some people just like being dumb .