So you mean the gals who get good risthas aint good enough themselves ?
What I mean is that rishtas are sought based on looks and money, etc. And moreover, the worst of women do a pretty good job in passing off as innocent and all that jazz. They play the part. If you have an average looking honest girl who has good qualities, people won't even really find out because good people don't advertise their goodness. That's being flamboyant. So good girls are often overlooked.