Existence of a Good Girl

i get to read here (on GS) a lot that existence of “Good Girls” is now extinct.

This thinking is mediocre. not only it reflects that you guys have zero faith on ALLAH SWT, but also you guys fail to admit that you actually see yourself in all those girls. in fact what great deeds have you guys done that you are demanding a pious companion?

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meny fajer ki namaz parhi at 8am. :blush:

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Wa ji…aap ny to problm e solve kr dia Zobia ka…:hehe:

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if i tell u what i've accomplished in my life the ground will slip underneath your feet but i prefer to keep my lips sealed and not say...just hint at it...people here worry about trivial issues when it comes to relationships and responsibilities taht goes with it. i'm sorry i got emotional...well, life isn't about getting what u want the real pleasure and contentment of heart lie in the fact that what u can give to the relationship. aajkal kii peeRhii emn isii cheez kaa had darja foqdaan hai...maiN aur maiN aur maiN ...BAS!!!

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Hashmat Bhyya ASslamu Alikum:wave:
Aap gussa b hoty han???:o

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aaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwww :o mere lahje se kia aisaa lagaa aapko? nahiiN nahiiN nahiiN…maiN to kabhi Ghussa hotaa hii nahiiN…ajtak kabhi kisi se baland aawaaz se baat nahiiN kii. sorry agar aisa lagaa aapko…kuchh issues bahot touchy hote haiN…insaan suntaa rahtaa hai, suntaa rahtaa hai to kabhi kabhi jazbaatii ho kar kuchh kah detaa hai…shaayad mere saath abhii yehii huaa…

ek kahaanii sunaataa huN:

ek aql-mand insaan ke saath uskaa naukar ek kashti emN sawaar the. naukar paanii dekh kar ghabraayaa bahooot. chillaanaa, shor machaanaa shur’u kar diyaa…bas yehii kahtaa k mujhe bachaao maiN paanii meN Doob jaauuNgaa. laakh samjhaayaa gayaa magar vo na maanaa…aqlmand saaHib ko ek hii ilaaj uskaa nazar aayaa. unhoN ne use uThaa kar daryaa meN phaiNk diyaa…vo haath paauuN maarne lagaa…vo Doobne lagaa…chillaa chilaa kar madad kii darKhowaast kartaa…thoRii der ke ba’d aql-mand saaHib ne mallaah [sailor] se kahaa k ise uThaa kar vaapas naao [boat] meN biThaa do. aisaa hii kiyaa us ne…use naao meN biThaa kar blanket oRhaayaa, hot chocolate pilaayaa…ab jaa kar us naukar kii samajh men aayaa k REAL khatra kia hotaa hai aur PERCEIVED DANGER kia hotaa hai aur aafiyat [safety] kis cheez kaa naam hai.

Allah ham sab ke liye boat kaa safar karne kii zaroorat na aane de aur hameN asl maqsad e Hayaat kii taraf moR de aur hamaarii raah aasaan farmaaye…aameen :)**

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Ameen Summa-Ameen
Ye story aap ny mri txt book sy churai hy:hehe:

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Dude no one is perfect except for Allah SWT and everyone has some faults .... as soon as people realize that everyone is gonna come with some faults and are ready to compromise with those shortcomings things and relationship will get a lot easier

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Are good girls extinct on GS, the in-laws' place, or the planet?

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yeh to maiN ne “Hikaayaat-e-Sa’dii” se lii thii jo maiN ne bachpan meN paRhii thii…tum farsi paRhtii ho kia? agar aatii ho to bataao kia matlab hai:

Haal-e-shumaa cheest?
kuja mee-ravii?
che Khabar ast?**

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No point in being a good girl. You either don't get good rishtaa or you end up with a psychopath.

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I agree with her^about the last part.

You got hold of a generalization and expanded on it further . When you said 'you guys' then who you are referring to ??

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what pcg said

So you mean the gals who get good risthas aint good enough themselves ?

qaza?
btw when you submitted your reply, even at that time it wasn’t 8 :stuck_out_tongue:

ps. your pray for yourself, and not for others.

what ever you have accomplished, you accomplished for yourself. you worked for it and you earned it. you are blessed enough to get to that point. so there is no point of me getting inspired and let the ground under my feet slipped away.

nonetheless Hashmat sahab, i am perplexed that what exact dimension you want me to see in regards to the topic i posted. :slight_smile:

there are good and bad people exist every where, but calling it an end is what i am talking about.

besides, there are very few people who start a generalize topic, most of the thread starter usually narrow it down to their experiences. they start that thread cuz they find it a problem and they want to fix it.

if all the girls take the evilness of their in-laws a universal one then it would be a generally accepted principle and no one would be posting em.

if getting married is the only problem then your approach is very selfish. i will urge you to recite Surah Baqarah and absorb the rulings on hypocrisy.

the guys/men who constantly mentioning it an end of humanity, especially among gals.

qaza maza farishty khud hi check ker leen gy meeny bas perh di.

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I’m a good girl. The best, in fact. I’m also very humble. :chai:

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I agree with PCG to an extent. I still be good to the best of my knowledge though :vivo: And hope for someone just as good to come along :bummer: