Re: Exchanging Pictures
Ladies ladies ladies. I realize your concern and I do agree that the guy (or his family) can share your picture online or abuse it in some other way, but keep in mind that most of the times, the picture is shared through a middleman, not directly with a stranger family. If you trust aunty xyz and give her your picture, you will feel comfortable that she will not give it away to the guy’s family. She will just show the picture to her and that’s it.
I guess this is where the difference between the guy’s point of view and the girls’ point of view comes in. As a guy, if I were to send my picture for rishta, I wouldn’t mind. I would say again that I would rather be rejected and save myself time than meeting in person and then getting rejected after that. Why? Because I would have met the family and what if I like the family and get along with them and they still turn me down? That will bring my self esteem down. If they look at my picture and never contact me again, who cares? I don’t know them, they are strangers to me. I can easily get over that.
Again, each situation is different. I wish the thread opener all the best :k: