Re: Exchanging Pictures
When I was growing up, we had a few come to our house for cousins or whoever and I hated how the poor girl was analyzed to bits from her hair to teeth to feet. Besides, the families don't just restrict the pics to their opinions- they are passed onto the entire khaandaan and the whole clan of aunties and so many comments are passed.
I just find that behaviour amusing and yet disgusting. What is the need for hte women of hte family to pass judgment on the girl based on her looks? As un-PC as it is to say, it is ONLY the guy's right to judge the girls looks and to determine whether he's attracted to her or not. Mothers, sisters, aunties, etc have absolutely no right to comment on her looks. Growing up i was constantly told that if I didn't lose weight or smethin, first ill never get a rishta or then my in-laws will make life hell for me....proud ot say, that's never been an issue with anyone :)