Diwana…I guess you wouldn’t hear this from men, as it does seem like something women would do…I’m talking about like “Like, Omg, her husband is soooo great, hes sooo funny” bla bla…or, for instance..hes too good for you, u dont deserve him, etc
Urgh we have this family friend, he’s like 30 something, divorced unfortunetly, and he hits on my mom and my bhabi like there is NO tomorrow. Infront of my dad and bro, saying stuff like ‘why didn’t I meet you before’ and ‘my friends are always saying I must be in love with you cause I talk about you all the time’ to my mom
definintely creepy and very inappropriate.
Well… I live abroad and sometimes one of my friend invites me over to his place… lets say once every 3-4 months. Everytime I go there, his wife cooks/bakes these amazing things. His wife just says salam and never actually sits with any of his friends including me.
I have complimented my friend 3-4 times in total in 2 years (in the absence of his wife ofcourse) that mashAllah bhabi is an amazing cook and that he is lucky.
Do you guys think it was inappropriate ?
nope, pretty normal.
it also depends on how close you are to the person, is it family, close friend, acquaintance? what might seem like a huge compliment coming from a close friend/family member might sound weird coming from an overzealous acquaintance, gotta know the limits.