Re: Ever heard of this Rasam?
I find this rasam quite weird because it just cant be comfortable for the bride n groom to be around so many people...since there is guests staying at the house...and its so crowded n all...
usually after the wedding no one's left in the house. just the immediate family. everyone goes away eitehr walima day or walima night. it's a way for the groom to get to know the bride's family better, without being watched by his mother or something like that. for example when my cousin came over to stay, the next morning my brother in law and my guy cousins pretty much spent the time together doing the male bonding thing. it definitely put my cousin's mind at ease that her brothers were getting along well with her husband.