Ever heard of this Rasam?

[farishta2]

Re: Ever heard of this Rasam?

we call it a muklava...basically its just daughter coming home for first time after rukhsati. from what i've seen its not realy done here very much, b/c weddings do usually happen on the weekend.s..but its practiced more in pak.

yup!

[mrscupcake]

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yup its called muklawa ........

[_pyari_sii_bachi]

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I find this rasam quite weird because it just cant be comfortable for the bride n groom to be around so many people...since there is guests staying at the house...and its so crowded n all...

[aminas]

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@Numb

Ek Afghani rassam hai, the husband takes a tissue and takes the hymen of his whife as a proof of virginity and shows it to his family members the next day, now what the hell is this, tell me!!!?

tht is so disgusting, Thank God there no such rasam exist in our family

but what if it was

[Khumar]

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@_pyari_sii_bachi

I find this rasam quite weird because it just cant be comfortable for the bride n groom to be around so many people...since there is guests staying at the house...and its so crowded n all...

usually after the wedding no one's left in the house. just the immediate family. everyone goes away eitehr walima day or walima night. it's a way for the groom to get to know the bride's family better, without being watched by his mother or something like that. for example when my cousin came over to stay, the next morning my brother in law and my guy cousins pretty much spent the time together doing the male bonding thing. it definitely put my cousin's mind at ease that her brothers were getting along well with her husband.

[wannabe_a_mum]

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I suppose today it doesn't happen so much as the married couple tend to go away onhoneymoon straight after the Valima....

And also, these days couples usually have bought a house before they actually get married so they go there if they aren't going away on honeymoon straight after..

[XChorniX]

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rasm or no rasm, i’d be at my parents the next day and i would demand to stay at my parents for the next week …not that anyone would listen

[AQ]

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@XChorniX

rasm or no rasm, i’d be at my parents the next day and i would demand to stay at my parents for the next week …not that anyone would listen

as an alternative, you will have your *thuDay te chapaiR" ready in any given circumstances.. we know

[Sheal]

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^… LOL

[XChorniX]

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@AQ

as an alternative, you will have your *thuDay te chapaiR" ready in any given circumstances.. we know

ofcourse, but i don’t think that will work in that home…only my parents can put up with my tantrums i don’t wana get married