Ever been cheated on?

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Well it depends. If she says this due to greed, only for marrying another man who is richer than him and also wants to take away the child from him only because he can not provide her as much luxuries as "another man" can, than it is cheating.

It would also be cheating if she says this to him as she is inspired by the status of another man who offers her for a marriage.

p.s. She definately has the right to marry a rich man or a man with a high status, but she should have thought about it before marriage and before having a child from him, instead of using him before and than leaving him.

^ This is just one case, there can be alot more different cases, so anyone can't give a generalized answer to your question.

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Never cheated on any one coz there was none. :-) (it doesn't mean that I sleep around)

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u know wht I think ,If a man does a blunder , he should be punished ...

and if a women , She should be punished twice ...thts all

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I never ever been cheated on .......... But have seen many such cases. Twinborn... Why a women should be punished twice????

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Reason?:naraz:

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Why ?

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first of all the status of woman they hold the potential of creating life and also they uphold their honour if she fails then that is why her punishment is twice

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i feel deeply sorry for those who had to suffer in their relationships. Nothing like this ever happend to me but god forbid..if ever...idon't know what i'll do:(

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Dont know if this is called cheating or just fate..
i was very much in love with a guy, should i say crazy for him it wont be wrong. He claimed that he loved me too but then he got married to somebody else, later on i found out that he was engaged to her since long ago and he was just lying to me about his undying love for me. I was pretty much depressed for a long time and blamed myself for all of this, i thought maybe he thinks i am not a good person, maybe i deserved to be treated like that. But, I figured there are many people in this world who are idiots, why waste your thoughts and tears over someone who doesnt value your feelings. Its all in past now and i am very much glad i wasnt the one he got married to. It would have ruined my life.

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QueenBee...
Hes a dick...just like you said be happy he got married to someone else...

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Aww Sabriya786, I just wanna give you a big hug for all that you’ve been through. I don’t think I could be as strong as you have been after going through all this. I hope you have close family around you during this tough time:hugz:.

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thanks Mallika, i'm ok now :)

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It's called being a dick and having no b***s, thats what it is. My sister was with a guy for almost 9 years and he did basically the same thing. My sister is MashALLAH happily married now, and her loser ex is lets just say completely ruined today. You deserve muchh better... may Allah give you eternal happiness :)

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For those who have been cheated on, just be happy that you didnt have to spend your life with such a loser...you should CELEBRATE :)

just remember "anything that doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger"

just have faith in Allah and in yourself, after every hardship, come 2 eases....one day you all will look back and be GLAD that this person left you!

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[FONT='Times New Roman']Im nt married bt my ex bf cheated on me with my frend. I neva knew hu to b more angry with, my frend o my ex. I’d been with him fou 7 months n den found out my frend was with him 2, so i broke up wiv him bt dey were still 2getha bt broke up soon after.. he says he realised dt he luvs me n wntz me bk.. bt i’ve learnt my lesson.. i still luv him bt jst cn’t get bk wiv him.. he broke my heart!
[FONT='Times New Roman']Itz very hard to find loyal guyz these dayz!!!

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nothing is hard. nothing is easy.. life is just a *****