i fancy one pakistani man and i notice that he is atrracted by my attention as well. im trying not to label people or put them to certain categories, but ive heard that men from that area think of white women just as easy ones and very rarely fall in love with them (because they are used, not virgins, etc..) How is it in reality? would i have a chance with him if the events turned to good direction?
by the way: hes living in Europe about 10 years (so a bit westernised i guess) and is much older than me (about twice)
Re: european girl attracted to pakistani man. could there be anything serious?
ew, just stay away from him.
Re: european girl attracted to pakistani man. could there be anything serious?
here's another thing you should know about pakistani men who are twice anybodies age ................................ theyre most likely married, ring on the finger or not, also, check that he has a passport, or most likely your his ticket to getting one, i've known illegals who have been here for over 10 years & only got caught because they smashed into the back of a police car & hence got deported.........but he's back again! Anyway, if all checks out so far, depending on if he's close with his family, your gonna have to be prepared to make drastic changes to your lifestyle leading towards becoming a muslim if you want marriage, see for a pakistani person love & marriage go hand in hand, if your 'loving' each other & you aint married, chances are he don't love you & it won't develop into anything serious, but then it all depends on what you want from the relationship.
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well no one can tell u what exactly is goin on in his head, there are million types of muslims out there n ur saying hes also a lil westernised so i guess treat him like a normal guy then, if it has to happen it will
so ure that european girl??...
how does he treat you like??
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dont count on it... believe me you would think in this day and age finding a pakistani muslim man who is educated and raised here without the narrow minded approach to life would be so much easier to find now but its not. Im half pakistani AND MUSLIM and so many guys still when you get into the serious stages of the rel'p begin to bring up the oh well we have too many differences race and culture wise, etc... its all BS... they just want/need an excuse to justify the fun they were having with you and then make themselves look all innocent and everything!
Gahhhh! It annoys the crap outta me! So yeah if youre not muslim, not even remotely desi...just forget it!
dont count on it... believe me you would think in this day and age finding a pakistani muslim man who is educated and raised here without the narrow minded approach to life would be so much easier to find now but its not. Im half pakistani AND MUSLIM and so many guys still when you get into the serious stages of the rel'p begin to bring up the oh well we have too many differences race and culture wise, etc... its all BS... they just want/need an excuse to justify the fun they were having with you and then make themselves look all innocent and everything!
Gahhhh! It annoys the crap outta me! So yeah if youre not muslim, not even remotely desi...just forget it!
fun
u mean
oh ****
here's another thing you should know about pakistani men who are twice anybodies age ................................ theyre most likely married, ring on the finger or not, also, check that he has a passport, or most likely your his ticket to getting one, i've known illegals who have been here for over 10 years & only got caught because they smashed into the back of a police car & hence got deported..........
you nailed it :D
Re: european girl attracted to pakistani man. could there be anything serious?
nice jee niceeeeeeeeeeee
thanks for replies. actually i dont know him so well, so i cant tell if he has wife, visa, and other stuff. deeply I probably know that there couldnt be anything serious, but i cant stop looking at him and get him out of my head, thats the problem. he treats me very well - is polite, gentleman like, curious..so i dont know wheather to show him my interest or no- all I know that second case will not leave me happy
fun u mean
oh ****
erm can u spell??:p
Re: european girl attracted to pakistani man. could there be anything serious?
I think u just have a crush and crushes usually fall apart after a few weeks. in any case, just EW!
That’s us!!!
Again That’s us:snooty:
Re: european girl attracted to pakistani man. could there be anything serious?
jokes aside but you could earn his respect. I mean the way he respect his own women.
I do respect women from other races as much as I respect women from my own family.
Because they had some values and character.
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awww so swaaaaaat! 
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I think he if he is living there for last 10 years than there must not be any visa issues. One thing about us desis that we are some time nosy with out any reason. So I think its all cool.
Just make sure he is married or not. You should start talking to him.
Its better if you let him know that you like him. These feelings are rare and its worth a shot. At the most the would say no, but at least you’ll be satisfied that you tried. Go for it girl and Good luck 
thanks for replies. actually i dont know him so well, so i cant tell if he has wife, visa, and other stuff. deeply I probably know that there couldnt be anything serious, but i cant stop looking at him and get him out of my head, thats the problem. he treats me very well - is polite, gentleman like, curious..so i dont know wheather to show him my interest or no- all I know that second case will not leave me happy
:)..........just a wild guess..............
'meloine' you must be Brittany Spears............and you are talking about.......
Adnan Ghalib.............Right?...............:D
dont count on it... believe me you would think in this day and age finding a pakistani muslim man who is educated and raised here without the narrow minded approach to life would be so much easier to find now but its not. Im half pakistani AND MUSLIM and so many guys still when you get into the serious stages of the rel'p begin to bring up the oh well we have too many differences race and culture wise, etc... its all BS... they just want/need an excuse to justify the fun they were having with you and then make themselves look all innocent and everything!
Lets go through the basics again.
Commitment FIRST
Fun LATER
Haha!! Thats funny! :-)
ew, just stay away from him.
Re: european girl attracted to pakistani man. could there be anything serious?
Oh yeah - if he is twice your age, he could be my father. Please dont marry him. He already has 8 kids and three wives.