Re: Equality in Marriage…
It is often true that women go for the jugular when it comes to divorce. In our culture most often it is because the chances of resettlement for a woman are significantly lower than for the divorced man so there is this inherent need of self-preservation. And if children are involved and they are (as most often occurs) ending up living with the now-single mom, then she needs some additional buffer as her ability to go out and earn is often limited by the need to look after them.
By the same token, there are countless examples of men out there that claim to “love” their children but will fight tooth and nail to have their monthly child support payment reduced by showing false income statements and claiming poverty.
It cuts both ways friend.
I agree. I just don’t get why I am told to grow up or stop behaving childishly when I want my gender to practice self preservation yet when women do this, they are given shahbash.