Is there anyone here who ever actually ENJOYED their pregnancy? i mean every single moment of it?
I know there are so many uncomfortable aspects to even a healthy and normal pregnancy, but I also know that there are many who would kill to be in that situation. Esp for those who had a difficult time conceiving or sustaining a pregnancy (in case of thsoe who had miscarriages)…did u ever feel like u had no right to complain or felt guilty about hating some symptoms?
Also, i know this sounds kind of weird..but does anybody ever miss being pregnant?
Most women I talk to miss being pregnant ... I think that period has joys of its own especially as you cross milestones like when the baby starts kicking...or when the nausea stops.... and most women who conceive later in life (either due to late marriage or whatever) are mostly thankful that they got pregnant.... I think it is the younger mothers who either don't care about the pregnancy or you see that their way of raising their kids is just full of carelessness..... No offence to anyone this is just my observation of ppl around me... it is different for everyone
i can easily say i miss being pregnant.. i had a really easy pregnancy mashallah times a million so thats probably why … but it was just a magical period.. ure husband wants to bubble wrap u so nothing can happen to u or the baby… is more than his usual self kind, considerate, and all that nice stuff… ure mil says NO to housework of any kind and kicks ure hsubands ass for even lil things like making u sneeze haha..
.. not only that.. i actually miss my delivery room, the recovery room.. the hospital staff.. the whole aura of the moment (mind u, i had a horrible delivery but still)… the first time ure parents and in laws see ure spawn.. sure u can go onto have many more kids.. but there is something bout that very first child.. sighz…
but i DID complain.. getting pregnant easily or with trouble.. doesnt mean u should or shouldnt complain.. i think the 2 things can not be compared … nor are u wishing that u nevevr got pregnant when u DO complain.. but when u have to pee a millino times almost always when ure sleeping, when round ligament pain makes turning sides in bed seem like wanting to win the nobel peace prize… i think a woman that took 10 yrs to get pregnant will even complain! and rightfully be able to.
i didnt feel guilty for complaining nor wanting it over and done with towards the end when i was overdue…
nehows… cant wait to get pregnant again.. its definately easier than what is waiting for u once its born…
either all that or like 99% of women out there who go on to have many more babies than just the one, i too suffer from selective memory loss
but when u have to pee a millino times almost always when ure sleeping, when round ligament pain makes turning sides in bed seem like wanting to win the nobel peace prize... i think a woman that took 10 yrs to get pregnant will even complain! and rightfully be able to.
Women who take 10 years to get pregnant might have the seldom complaints here and there but they do not complain every single day during pregnancy or after they have a baby.They count their blessings.
I will never wish upon anyone to ever go through years of trying but its such a roller coaster that it makes you be thankful to God with every time you have to go pee in the middle of the night,with every pulled muscle or ligament here and there,with every single diaper you have to change or with the every single spit up you have to clean.
I guess whenever you get something in life you always wanted to after a long time,you just value it more and try not to say stuff which you think might jinx it.
Just my thoughts and some personal experience.
Alhamdulillah, I am enjoying pregnancy, the amazing feeling of having life inside your stomach is just mind blowing. Having the blessing and gift of actually concieving and being pregnant, I thank God every day for making me so fortunate to be a mother inshAllah, I can't complain at all even about the yucky bits because it's so wierd that your getting rewarded for all this and at the end of it I just can't wait to meet my baby May Allah swt give us healthy pious beautiful children. Ameen
Although I complained a little about my 2nd pregnancy but it was still nice, you feel so special everyone is taking care of you.Especially the first pregnancy when you dont have children its more fun. From labor room to hospital every thing was good. I think everyone likes being special and when u get pregnant you automatically become special.I dont know about 3rd pregnancy but the last two pregnancies I had I miss those times.:)
I did not enjoy every single moment of my pregnancy, but I definitely enjoyed much of it, especially the feeling of the baby inside of me. I even began to get a sense of the personality and would feel like she was interacting with me on purpose. It seems pretty consistent with who she is now. What else is nice about pregnancy is that you're taking care of the baby by simply taking care of yourself; that becomes much harder once she's out!
A lot of women who had trouble conceiving feel guilty about expressing their frustration and struggles during pregnancy. It's important to make it okay for them.
I did not enjoy either of my pregnancies since my nausea never ever goes away. The only thing I did enjoy were babies' little movements and that's about it.
Yay I am pregger's alhamdulillah! I'm 21 weeks gone, now I can feel thumps and bumps all day long, this baby is so active mashAllah, it started poking me at 14 weeks and then the thumps came along at 18 weeks, now full blown kicks lol! Cheeky thing!
I have my second scan next week and we will inshAllah find out the gender, yeah I know the first baby should be a surprise but hey i'm way too impatient for all that! InshAllah sisters please do dua that all our babies are healthy and growing fine that's what I'm praying for! Ameen x
The time which I'm passing is quite difficult as I am having a severe stomach infection and headache due to weakness from the last 4 weeks. Doctors say that first trimester and a 4th month are usually tough so I'm waiting patiently for that day to come when I will become active again IA. I'm on complete bed rest these days. so far I can't feel myself normal but I am thankful to Allah for His blessing, being a mother is really a great feeling.
ya sahar isnt that the funniest... my son would kick back everytime my husband would hug me :D its like he could feel extra heat or warmth and man would he go.. also he would react to pomengrate seeds... oh man he would go crazy everytime i had them.. and even now ... its his fav fruit.. too bad he cant have too much of it..
The time which I'm passing is quite difficult as I am having a severe stomach infection and headache due to weakness from the last 4 weeks. Doctors say that first trimester and a 4th month are usually tough so I'm waiting patiently for that day to come when I will become active again IA. I'm on complete bed rest these days. so far I can't feel myself normal but I am thankful to Allah for His blessing, being a mother is really a great feeling.
I did not enjoyed my pregnancy at all ! Nausea , vomiting , headaches , low grade fevers and severe heart burns and in the end I got infected from hepatities E virus which resulted in premature delivery. From what i have read on internet 1 out every 5 woman who are infected with heptatitis E virus during pregnancy dies.
haha..
