Re: Engagement - Should you communicate a lot or keep it limited?
Me too.. Sometimes I wonder if some of the ppl saying there should be no contact (esp elders) before marriage are thinking ‘well at least they can’t back out’ lol..
My parents married just like yours (some of their siblings did have love marriages tho) and they are total opposites, they spend the bulk of their time even when they’re at home not together as they hardly have anything in common.. In their case it’s almost as tho they’re just going thru the motions and just together for the sake of it and even tho they’re not unhappy with the situation by any stretch I could never live my life like that..