Engagement - Should you communicate a lot or keep it limited?

STA · May 16, 2011, 5:53pm

Re: Engagement - Should you communicate a lot or keep it limited?

^ So you’re going to stick with what society tells you or what common sense tells you?
I pointed out reality.

There are ways around it. The couple can meet at family events- the family can invite theirs down for dinner etc etc I’m sure something could be figured out even if it’s considered a taboo in the area you’re living in.
this is the way where guy and girl start get to know process.

But I’m adamnant about this: I would much much rather understand him in the engagement period than be stuck with a clash of personalities/ values etc after the marriage!
** I believe limited communication is good if you are smart enough, but everyone communicate and understand differently. **

By the way stayyabali: What does having a opinion on this have to do with having a good tarbeeyat?
Embedding good moral values and ethics in children brain.

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