engagement ring - who puts it on?

[amber19]

Re: engagement ring - who puts it on?

@candy_apple

^ It matters. NO one but the hubby should be putting that ring on. ANY MIL who prefers to put the ring on her DIL instead of letting her son do it…be warned…she will be one to watch out for after marriage. This shows her controlling nature from the get-go. A big red flag.

Kind of agree with you there.. I mean putting yourself in the middle of their special day, even if it’s just an engagement is kind of weird to me.
I think it would send me the wrong message if my MIL insisted on doing that or even thought that it was “besharam” to put a ring on my fiance’s finger.

I just don’t like when people bring all that into a marriage - especially those who carry on with traditions, even they don’t understand simply because “log kya kahengay”.