wow…ive spoken to mine, but i havent seen him..sent me some pics and stuff but thats it!! Yeah i guess u can speak and get to know after the engagement…thats wot i did, and its good coz in a way both people r serious at an engagement stage and happy to be together…so im gonna c my guy 4 days before the nikkah…just a tiny bit scared but inshallah it’ll be ok.
good luk and congrats