Re: Engagement breaking
The girl’s parents are equally responsible as they wanted their daughter to be seated all the time and stood just once to greet them but he didn’t notice as he was busy in meeting other family members as i already mentioned..Then how they rushed into things and within 1 or 2 day asked for rasam messed it all up.Being desparate of girl’s parents is understandable coz they had 6 daughters lined up for marriage and her 2 sis were older than her but why did they hide height issue like this..tht caused confusion.And worst of all the boy couldn’t notice and handled it immaturely by saying yes before giving a thorough look at her.
His parents are equally blamed for all what happened.It was not a gudiya gudday ka khail…Dono kee life pe asar para hai..esp the girl coz she had already height issue and now mangni tootna..may Allah bless her with a life partner better than my cousin..Ameen
Her height was 4 feet 9 with full heels means she was about 4’4..(plzz dont take it wrong ..my purpose is not to humiliate somebody so its better to close the thread than stretching the matter any further)..and I dint want to mention but I ve seen the pics so the guy was justified too but what he did was completely wrong.This world is superficial really and he couldnt compromise with that height..thats justified coz mangni kee koi sharaee haisiat nahi hai. .as Rv said also..
Most of you are bashing on the guy ,I respect everybody’s opinion and agree ..yess he did the worst by saying yes for mangni before realizing height issue..and he is guilty and prays to Allah for forgiveness..thats the best thing and if he will pray to God whole heartedly then Allah sab se barh ker muaaf kerney wala hai.
And he has become alert nw and has learnt a good lesson.
may Allah have mercy on all of them Ameen