Maham
September 7, 2010, 6:09pm
25
Re: Engagement breaking
God be with the girl who will marry to your cousin and come to his family.
Sorry but your cousin and his parents are selfish. your cousin was only thinking about himself and his parents were thinking about “Dunya Waley”. None of them were thinking about another jeeta-jaagta human involved in this i.e The Girl.
In the end he did what he did. There is nothing much he can do now and should move on.
Its unbelievable that in the age when guys spend hours to choose sun-glasses or tie, your cousin is so choiee-moiee that he said haaan in 10 min …
Well Said.
ohhh puhlease, you do not need to be a casonova to atleast look at the girl your about to marry, the fact that the OP keeps insisting hes soo shareef and namaazi is making my blood boil, hows that relevant? the fact thAt he didnt bother looking at her, got engaged, and then whooppsy daisy thinks shes abit short, and calls it off, wheres sharafat in that?and the fact that he r eads namaz, ?? pure fact is he called it off after looking at her, maybe he shouldnt have been so dam nshareef
Well Said.
Lolz.
Excuse me? Are you trying to say that just he didnt do a big crime, his small crime is fair enough?!. You talk of decency as if he was doing ehsan on the girl by not taking her on dates.
i really don’t see what your cousin did as so bad. he’s a human being and has to think about his future. If he’s not attracted to this girl and he realized this later, breaking the engagement now is better than problems in the marriage later on.
physical attraction is important in a marriage, and it would be hell for her too if he feels nothing no love/attraction for her after marriage. he must be really really young and immature to be so impulsive though.
there’s a better match for her and him.
He is not wrong for not liking her for whatever reason, i also believe everybody has the right to want what they like. However if he was so particular about height and all then he shouldnt have been so abrupt with his haan. You are forgetting haan means the rishta is finalised so imagine what affect it would have on the girl and her family.