:k: That’s something to consider.
It’s tough to move on. I know it sounds strange to try and “move on” from a relationship that NEVER even happened…but what you’re really moving on from is the emotional energy you’ve invested in the person. It can be like an addiction…daydreaming about a particular someone…entertaining future possibilities…etc etc. You let yourself get carried away with the emotions that come with having a crush. You have this rosy picture in your mind of what you perceive to be a “perfect” future with that person. And then when you realize that it may not be possible for you to achieve this…it’s tough for many people to readjust that rosy picture. Your time…which was once mostly consumed by the thoughts of the other person…now has to be filled with other activities. Many changes that come with “moving on.” It’s like readjusting your life’s routine to an extent.
It’s not easy, but it can be done. It can get better. The intensity of the feelings can lessen. If you occupy your time with activities and goals that you’re truly interested in…that can help the process and make you stronger.
As I’ve said before. He knows you like him. If he wants you, he’ll come after you. Don’t chase after him. While keeping yourself busy, you just mind find your own self…or possible a better person who will reciprocate your feelings.
Try praying and asking Allah for help.