It’s tough to move on. I know it sounds strange to try and “move on” from a relationship that NEVER even happened…but what you’re really moving on from is the emotional energy you’ve invested in the person. It can be like an addiction…daydreaming about a particular someone…entertaining future possibilities…etc etc. You let yourself get carried away with the emotions that come with having a crush. You have this rosy picture in your mind of what you perceive to be a “perfect” future with that person. And then when you realize that it may not be possible for you to achieve this…it’s tough for many people to readjust that rosy picture. Your time…which was once mostly consumed by the thoughts of the other person…now has to be filled with other activities. Many changes that come with “moving on.” It’s like readjusting your life’s routine to an extent.
It’s not easy, but it can be done. It can get better. The intensity of the feelings can lessen. If you occupy your time with activities and goals that you’re truly interested in…that can help the process and make you stronger.
As I’ve said before. He knows you like him. If he wants you, he’ll come after you. Don’t chase after him. While keeping yourself busy, you just mind find your own self…or possible a better person who will reciprocate your feelings.
so how do u deal with ending a 6,7 years friendship that is one sided..like the girl likes the guy...she never said it...but the guy has the idea from her actions and obsession with him...now the guy wants to end this friendship before its tooo late and anyone gets hurt...
how shud the girl deal with it...shez just obsessed and can get over it in a while or so....but facing the rejection at the moment is being so hard for her...
time is the best healer. give it time and be patient. he is not the be all and end all of her life