Re: Enabling people who don’t learn from their mistakes
Honestly, this is beyond ridiculous. Whatever the issue is that’s causing him to act this way…this is seriously going to hurt your marriage. Him spending money on his family like you guys are rich will prevent you two from buying a home and having kids. And even if you do buy a home/have kids, the stress from money problems will only get worse and it will cause arguments/resentment in your marriage (more than what’s already happened). It’s one thing for him to help his parents. But for him to decide that his two sisters AND their husband are moving in with you…along with his adult brother is just ridiculous.
You two need counseling. Please find someone who will help your husband cope with his emotions about his father’s illness AND help the two of you communicate better. You’re spending thousands and thousands of dollars on his family. For once, use your hard earned money to help your own marriage. Get a counselor and sort this out before it spirals out of control.