How do u emotionally detach yourself when you’ve fallen so deep into everything?
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I dont understand you’re question… 
What’s “everything”, “detach” from what???
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Sara stop thinking about it.
Its about time you started putting yourself before evrything and everyone esle.
sacrificing everything for the sake of another person will get you nowhere at the end of the day, and its very bad for one's self-esteem, one only ends up blaming one's self. You are precious and thats the only thing that matters.
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**Hmm that’s not xactly it..
The thing is im attahced to someone, and i wanna detach myself.. its the oinly thing I knw to do right now.. i want the urge to call/txt/msg em all the time to go away.. 
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Moving away - out of sight is definetly out of mind.
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that's what I am saying.... try to put urself before evrything else... if that sum1 really cares about you , be it a freind/relative.bf/whoever they would try n get in touch wid u themselves.
P.s try to make urself busy with stuff, watch a movie, call another friend up, start binge eating.. whatever it takes to keep ur mind off dat other person.
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that’s not helping yourself that’s punishing yourself!!
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umm dont listen to mywish abt the binge eating.
sara go shopping and do some exploring in lahore...shahi qila etc....you should be too busy to send sms messages! and take some pics of your travelogues....! im tired of looking at your eyes!
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I went to the gym, i did an hour of cardio, burnt 600 calories.. and then I had a can of pringles, a snickers bar, and a chocolate ice cream cone.. 
No mo tho!!!
U tired of lookin at my eyes?
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Sara, sometimes i wish i could provide chittar to the person responsible for this (other than you ofcourse 
). 
Like otehrs said, take a new hobby, make some friends, go visit some historical places with your family. Enjoy yourself as much as you can. Ssee, some of us would wish to spend so much time in pak so make the best of it. Do anything to stop thinking abt that one person.
You are not worth all this crap, trust me on this one and you shall be fine.
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u snapped? ONE round of 600cal did this to u?
mujh say ayeenda baat matt karna gym-tactics ke topic par..
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^ lol.
sorry im going through the same thing right now :(
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well i can most definitely smack YOU to begin with ..and if i had hand long enough to reach lahore from HERE i would smack sara TOO!
u lot need to see my 36" jeans or like need to work out with me .. aisay nahi sudhro gay
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^^ show off.
sara: shabash! burned 600 and then ate like a 1000 afterwards!
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I think we all need Faizy to straighten up our dieting regimes
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sure.. if thats what u think ..
nobody called me showoff when i touched 200 pounds, had jiggling belly or hanging fat 
and nobody called me that when i went from 36 to 29
talwarbibi: no dieting:nono2:, eating right, eating HEALTHY, and treating your body the way YOU wanna get treated by others…
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u cant, u just have to learn how to deal with it
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a tub of pringles is about 1600 calories all on its own
So far as the abstinace is concerned, let me know
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na in terms of fitness and food im fine. i swam 10 laps in the pool today and had an apple and orange after that. 
Re: emotional detachment
The only way to get someone out of your mind is to focus yourself on something/someone else. I would suggest something rather than someone.
Get a hobby or take a course. Put yourself into situations where you don't have the time to fulfill those inclinations to make contact.