Embarrasing situation - but was it my fault?

[njgal]

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It happened. You are all adults.

[paijee]

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@Mirch

Many things do not add up in this picture that you are painting therefore I am skeptical. I will consider it as a blind man and naked lady joke with a grain of salt I hope you must have heard that joke if not I can post the link .

1. No adult will barge into your house without knocking or ringing the bell even if your door is wide open .
2. If they suspect that some crime is in progress because the door is wide open they will call the police , specially a lady will not just try to investigate a crime scene on her own.
3. If the door was locked does she has a key to your house , very fishy.
4. If your wife and this friend of her’s made a plan to have breakfast together , your wife must have told her what time she will be back and also that you will be home.
5. If you were home unexpectedly then you wife must have called her to let her know that she will not be home and you are there so she should wait to come before her.
6. You wife did not tell you that she is going to have breakfast at your home or outside with a friend ?

She didnt break in or barge in! She had arrived early - so was let in by my wife whilst she did the school run.

Apparently I was not expected to wake up so early.

[paijee]

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It happened. You are all adults.

I can live with it. They may have issues with it. Definately not my fault.

[Sara516]

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Lol! definitely not your fault, but hey it happened...ah well.

[mirage]

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are you sure she didnt see a troll, and so shouted

[Lafanter]

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She didnt break in or barge in! She had arrived early - so was let in by my wife whilst she did the school run.

Apparently I was not expected to wake up so early.

but still man, why did she scream ?

she could have been embarrassed, looked away, closed her eyes or covered her eyes or ran to another room or ....

[Mirch]

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She didnt break in or barge in! She had arrived early - so was let in by my wife whilst she did the school run.

Apparently I was not expected to wake up so early.

fair enough.

[CharmedOne]

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She didnt break in or barge in! She had arrived early - so was let in by my wife whilst she did the school run.

Apparently I was not expected to wake up so early.

Why didn't she just go with your wife on the school run for a chit chat?...no friend of mine would ever stay in the house with my husband present...even if he was asleep.

[Reha]

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@redvelvet

I don’t know if others will agree…but I find her screaming over-dramatic…what a drama queen.

Also, could your wife be at fault? For example, could she have made the mistake of not letting you know that she was in the home and that her friend would be coming over? If so…then please place some of the blame on her.

That sounds about right to me.

She should have told you there was someone else at home before she left. Even if it meant waking you up.

Why didn’t the friend just go with? Or wait in the car? Or meet her at the breakfast spot?

Now, I wanna go to my favorite breakfast spot tomorrow morning.

[njgal]

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I can live with it. They may have issues with it. Definately not my fault.

If they have issues then they are not adults.

[yourfriend]

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Why didn't she just go with your wife on the school run for a chit chat?...no friend of mine would ever stay in the house with my husband present...even if he was asleep.

right...
... its your wife's fault

[LucyMay]

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S**t happens. Not your fault.

Does your wife seem upset? make a clean breast of it so she knows it was a honest mistake.

[Naabigh]

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but still man, why did she scream ?

she could have been embarrassed, looked away, closed her eyes or covered her eyes or ran to another room or ....

women often scream while seeing a mouse :)

so did she see one in real or ahem ahem , you know what I mean :D

[Sara516]

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@Naabigh

women often scream while seeing a mouse

so did she see one in real or ahem ahem , you know what I mean

[chaibiskut]

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I know Alanis Morrissette recommends walking around naked in your living room, but how many people actually exit the bathroom in the raw?

[Mrs_NM]

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@Mirch

Many things do not add up in this picture that you are painting therefore I am skeptical. I will consider it as a blind man and naked lady joke with a grain of salt I hope you must have heard that joke if not I can post the link .

1. No adult will barge into your house without knocking or ringing the bell even if your door is wide open .
2. If they suspect that some crime is in progress because the door is wide open they will call the police , specially a lady will not just try to investigate a crime scene on her own.
3. If the door was locked does she has a key to your house , very fishy.
4. If your wife and this friend of her’s made a plan to have breakfast together , your wife must have told her what time she will be back and also that you will be home.
5. If you were home unexpectedly then you wife must have called her to let her know that she will not be home and you are there so she should wait to come before her.
6. You wife did not tell you that she is going to have breakfast at your home or outside with a friend ?

My thoughts exactly. If I were going to see a friend for brekkie, I wouldn’t go into her home until she was there.

[paijee]

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So a couple of weeks later, I'm, still in the doghouse for a situation not of my making.

Sure a few circumstances conspired against us, eg she would have gone with my wife but daughters friends turned up on our doorstep so they filled the car up, so no space for 1 more.

Secondly, I'd forgotten my towel so made a mad rush from shower to my room - not expecting someone to be there. I dont normally walk around the house like that, even if the wife & kids are away on holidays etc. We are very conservative on such issues.

Her friend is a bit mentally/emotionally frail at the moment - messy divorce, deep distrust of men (dont blame her). Of all my wiife's friend, she is the only one I never speak to and try to avoid. Just bad luck I suppose that it had to be her!!!

Lesson learnt for me. Take your towel with you!

None learnt by the ladies I fear.

[psyah]

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It was no ones fault ... it was my fault for reading this thread ... :(

But I bet paijee screamed as well ... probably louder ...

[M_was_here]

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I still find it weird that your wife would allow her to stay in the house while she runs an errand. My mom would NEVER do that, the friend can come along or wait outside. Even if it's a female relative, that would still not happen. Khair, what is done is done.

[Reha]

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I find it weird too. My best friend is married with kids and I would NEVER agree to wait in her house alone while her husband was asleep upstairs. I would rather wait in the car and catch up on phone calls or just meet her wherever we have to be.

Its not your fault, she shouldn't have done that.