I have read a lot of issues and saw ppl giving some excellent advise so socha why not try and see if i get somewhere. So here is my Issue, I really like this girl but i dont know her that well meaning i know her a bit but i wanna know more about her, khair i tried once (not too long ago) and told her about me wanting to be friends and giving each other a chance, however she asked me a few questions and the conversation fell through at which point i assumed it was a rejection and backed of, however dimaagh mein ek fitoor sa betha hua hai and i feel like giving it one last shot, and i was thinking of asking her out yet again and see if we can meet over christmas as my vacation starts as of the 22nd, this gives me a chance to meet her in person and if she has any doubts that might clear and i will get a chance to know her as well.
Khair besides everything before i even do anything, i wanna ask you guys if i should give it one last shot before i totally close this chapter or will it look cheap or imposing.
I think it's fine to see if she's interested in talking once more. Just make sure that if she says no, or if she says yes and the meeting doesn't go well again, that you are totally willing to go your separate way and not approach her again----that would be crossing over into creepy behavior.
I would just send her a message/make a phone call saying something like, "I know our last conversation ended awkwardly, and I'm really sorry if what I said/asked made you uncomfortable. From what I know of you so far, I still admire your qualities and am interested in talking again if you'd be comfortable with that. I'll be on vacation Dec ?-? in city X; is there any chance you'd allow me to make up for our last conversation by treating you to coffee during my visit? I'd really like the chance to talk to you once more."
yup, I say , you give it another shot. Even if its a rejection, you will know in your heart that you tried and wil be able to let go of her without strings of thoughts tied.
Kaun ek thaper lagy ga sab samagh aa jaey gi
stay away from her, she is just a girl. Dude men kind ki izzat ka kheal karoo
in ko apny phechey phirwaty heen.... un ky pechey naheen phirty...
Kaun ek thaper lagy ga sab samagh aa jaey gi
stay away from her, she is just a girl. Dude men kind ki izzat ka kheal karoo
in ko apny phechey phirwaty heen.... un ky pechey naheen phirty...
