Ek Larka aur Ek Larki kabhi Dost.........

Probably been done before but here we go…

Do you think a girl and a guy can ever be JUST friends?

i personally think yeah they can as i have some very close female friends (some would say too close judging on the conversations we have) but never have i had any kind of attraction towards themand they havent had any attractions towards me. but there are people who thinkotherwise.

any takers?

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yes as long as there are certain things preventing any falling in love from anyone in the friendship. like one is already in a love relationship with somebody else, in my case mine are older than me, they're like my big brothers that look out for me. we aren't very very close but we can depend on each other always.

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a girl and a guy can be just friends. it all depends on ones personality

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That is a brilliant statement. :-)

when you say "personality" what do you mean? if 2 people are friends and have remained good friends for a long time (to an extent where they know each other inside out) then thats because of their personality isnt it? isnt it human emotions that sometimes get the better of some people?

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could you plz simplify that. i didnot exactly understand what you are tryna say there.

by personality i meant if one doesnot feel drawn towards the other then yes they can be friends. i guess personality is not exactly the right word. couldnot think of the other word.

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thats allright then.

think what you were saying was if someone cam control their feelings and depending on their emotional state they can be just a friend with a member of the opposite sex. agree with you there

but i find its usually guys that start to develop that feeling more than women. i know that a majority of women will say that its due to men thinking with whats in their trousers but on a seriousnote, why is it that guys get the wrong impression? is it because they read the signs wrong? they mistake gestures of friendship as tokens of love and attraction? is it actually because we think with our meat and 2 veg and not our brain?

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Aram se ban jaty hain larka larki dost

as far as i think when i say we are friends to a guy its mean we are JUST friends :D
the Highest stage can be BEST FRIENDS :)
no matter whatever signals i received from other sides

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It all depends on what ones intentions are :)
matlab personality

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Its possible........but the possibility of one of the two losing their head is also there.......

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Impossible

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they can be friends if there is some distance even in that friendship

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Yes as long as the girl is ugly

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Exactly

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wo, thats rude, but somewhat makes sense :)

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u have to work hard against nature.

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nai jee i always fall for allll the men i befriend and then i marry them.<3

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astaghfiruallahhhh, so that means it is u whose fault is pasanay ki larko ko :O
then u marry them? in islam only 4 marriages allowed :)

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u wanna fraandship wid me :wink:

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hahahah ur so hilarious, may Allah the almighty, keep your married life happily ever after and upcoming ones ;D

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i try, i really do... but they just fall for me every single time sigh