I was bored and felt like it!
oh go on with your post everyone!
Lemme start, my in-laws do not give me anything, and I do the same. However, there are plenty of salaam / duaas… and I like it that way.
(I never questioned myself why they never gave me anything, or why I do not give them - it’s just been that way from the beginning and I like it that way… mostly because let’s say even if we exchange gifts then - there would be a materialistic feel to it - then I would have to worry about how much $$ she spent on me and how much I $hould give in return and all that. It just takes away from the sincerity of observing an occasion).