Now after 6 years of our marriage I didn't get any eidi from in-laws, just they send 2 suits for me and one for hubby till 4 eids(eid-ul-fitr)even when I was there in on my first eid-uz-zuha. I went Pakistan after first eid and before eid-uz-zuha, I gave my all SIL and BIL eidi, even I was not on eid there but, I gave late eidi to them. But nobody gave me any penny and they gave eidi to theie 3 Son-in laws but not to Daughter-in-law, and my ammi gave eidi and cloths to me and my hubby, he was in US so I did his shopping from that money.