ok so…i’m in grade 12…my last year of highschool. In a couple of months…we have to start applying to uni`s n stuff…
in other words…we have to choose wat programs we’ll be taking n thus…choosing wat we’ll be doing for the rest of our lives.
Lemme jus give sum background info about myself…
being a typical pakistani larki…ive alwayz wanted to be a doctor…i alwayz wanted to wear a white coat…have a stethoscope hanging from my neck…n be called Dr. Nida…or wateverrr…( 
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kher…so ive basically grown up here in canada…well…kinda…like i came here when i was 10…n abhi i’m 17…so its been more than 7 years par i’m a TOTAL desi/pakistani larki…
so…having said all that…
jahan mein abhi khari hoon…i have like…3 choices…
one would be to study here…same city jis mein abhi mein hoon…n nothing would really change…i mean i’ll be comfortable with the environment…people…i’ll know wat to expect…etc…plus…its EASY to get into that uni…(atleast for me since i have a high average…compared to other ppl…Alhumdullilah)…
so sum plus points wud be…keh mein aaram se jaa sakti hoon…bus pakri ya drive ker ke ya jese bhi…it wont be so door…
n sum disadvantages would be…keh it’ll be a hundred times more expensive compared to a pakistani med. uni…
it’ll take me about…10 years…before i’m a poori doctor…so i’ll be 28 or 29…lol…
my second choice would be to go to karachi n study there…(planning on applying to D.O.W) …
now…my parents want me to study in pakistan…they dun say it saaf saaf…par i know they do…par wese if i make a faisla…they’ll never force me or anything…
i mean in the end…its gonna be me who decides wat to do…
so they think keh being a larki…its better for me to go back to my own country…learn my culture…know like…my rishtedaar n how it is to live there…
jabse hum yahan aaye hein…humaara humesha se plan tha keh when we r done highskool…we’ll move back…for good…
par now seeing all my friends thinking of applying to like…sum of the best uni’s ever…i wanna get an achi parhayee too…
n i know yahan ki parhayee is wayyyy better then wahan ki…cause wahan paanch saal mein hi ur done smack ..n yahan…pehle u take 4 years of pre-med…then 4 years of med…then 2 years residency…lol…
kher…par wahan keh faiday r keh…its wayyyy less expensive…my parents can easily afford it…
also…it takes 5 years sirf..meaning when i’m 25…im done…i’m a doctor…lol
AND…im close to my relatives…my culture…
n the most important thing…(i dont care if u guyz agree or not :halo: ) …is that its FUN!!! …,
yahan pe parhayee kerte waqt…basically the only thing u DO IS parhayee…
wahan pe…lets say if i go to dow…aaye din concerts hore hein college mein…exam dayz mein dostein rehne aari hain…uni trips pe jaare hein log…
i mean yahan bhi yeh sub hota hoga perrr i guess i like this fobbish style zyada…
i jus cant explain it…
lets jus say wahan parhne keh saath saath u can have SO much fun…
call me a fob or watever par i think pakistan is like 100 times more fun then like canada ya umreeka…
so wahan ki parhayee ITNI achi nahi hogi jitni yahan ki hai…PAR i can have so much more fun…which IS important to me…
my third choice will be to study in umreeka…
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my parents r thinking of moving there par abhi kuch pakka nahi hai…par studying there is…the mosttt expensive of all…
and time bhi utna hi lagra hai…9/10 years…
par obiously parhaee A1 hogi…i’ll be up to date with the latest technology/research…n my parhayee will be basically accepted…all around the world…(same with canada) …
kher…having said all that…
umm…i’ll jus remind u guyz keh im a LARKI…larkiyon ki shadi jaldi hoti hai larkon se…lol…
my parents r thinking of getting me married around 22/23…(no i dont WANT to marry early…par in a islamic way…its kinda good to marry at a yound age…so i wont create a problem or anything)…
now…they think keh mere liye behter hai if i move to karachi …cause then they can find an “apna jesa…karachi ka larka” for me…n get me married…n or sub pakistani larkiyon ki tarah i’ll jus start living in karachi…etc etc…
n everything will be perfect…
par me…i mean…i obviously DO think and CARE about all this family shadi ghar stuff…par the quality of parhayee i get is also very important to me…
parrr i mean…aik tarah se dekho to…i dunno who i’ll get married to…will he let me study after marrying? …n sub se barri cheez…even if i DO becum a doctor…will he let me work…cause jese keh hum sub ko pata hai…many pakistani guyz dun like to have their wives go to work waghera…
so meri yahan ki achi wali parhayee…kya sub bekaar jaaye gi? …jus cause i’m a larki…
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n i know myself…if my hunsband sayz ghar mein bheto koee kaam waam kerne ki zaroorat nahi…mein khushi khushi bhet bhi jaoon gi 
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like i said…i’m such a pakistani larki smack
kher…so ammi abbu think i shud jus go there n becum a doctor…
dunya ki sub se achi parhayee nahi to kya howa…bohat kum chance hai keh tum shadi ker ke APNE ghar ke liye kama rahi ho gi…it’ll be ur husband most probably…
now i dun know wat to doooooo 
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n NO i’m NOT thinking about shadis n stuff abhi se…its actually PARHAEE im thinking of…parr baad mein uska sub cheez per kya asar parre ga…consider kerni parteen hein sub cheezein na …
(personnally…i dun wanna marry a guy whose gonna live here…in canada/umreeka all his life…i mean its good if hes here for like parhayee n stuff…par i wanna live in pakistan when i’m done with parhayee n have my own family n stuff…) …
kher…so i need sum advices.. …
aap log mere jagah hote to kya kerte ..
ps: i know my threads r really long n boring ..parr…*sighz…
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…i wanted to be a neuro surgeon..abhi do saal pehle tak…lol
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