Rani janu, i went through your complete post and I think I know exactly how you are thinking coz I think I can relate to your thoughts ![]()
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acha,
med school k lyay if you apply to america/canada , you have to complete your bachelors first, and then you have to apply to med school, so that is quite a long process, and it takes many years, plus there’s no guarantee that you will get into a med school after your undergrad bc its very competetive. i dont know abt canada but thats how it was in america. so if you’re premed in america you really have to study very hard throughout your undergrad and make sure you have a really excellent gpa, plus you have to have good work experience etc as well. i’m not sure what the system is in canada, is it the same as america? so there’s no guarantees that you will end up in med school i feel.
lets say you come to pakistan for medical school, in karachi, there are many choices you have like Agha Khan, DOW, Hamdard, Baqai, Ziauddin and so on. many doctors from pakistan go to america/uk/canada after doing medicine here for their residency. since you’re already a canadian citizen * i think you won’t have trouble about visa issues when you want to go back after completing med school here, that is the biggest problem most people have.
about the license exam, i’m sure if you are a good student during medical school, and it looks like you are a hardworking student, you won’t have problems passing it inshallah.
as for med school kee parhai, the parhai here in pakistan in med schools is very very good, so dont think that you’ll be getting any less education here. haan ye hae ke over here there are other problems in colleges, like in DOW, the atmosphere you’ll find is very different than what you might be used to in your high school in canada. agha khana ur hamdard waghera phir bhee pvt institutes hayn and there the atmosphere is still ok. DOW mein ppl from all social classes come and study so you might need to adjust to some things.
as for going to college here and being part of the mainstream and enjoying the fun activities, yes that is true, its a completely different experience here and in america. both have got their advantages, but yes it is a complete desi atmosphere here. i know coz i been to america for college and my bros went here ![]()
where will u be living if u come to karachi? u might get a lil homesick being away from ur family, but if u have relatives or if u r living in a girls hostel it might be nice. plus u can visit during breaks. parhai here is less stressful than america thats true, but in Agha Khan it is very very competetive. baaki colleges kee itni tough nai hae. Agha Khan is the best though and you should try for that, phir Dow hae, phir SMC hae, phir hamdard/baqai waghera. there’s threads abt this in the career and academics forum of gs.
aur haan jaldi se info ikhati karna collect kar do coz i think u’ll have to start applying soon…AKU ka test bhee hota hay, i dont know if u’ll have to take it or not..but get started on collecting info waghera soon and be on top of the process
jahan tak shadi kee baat hae…yaar…trust me…u cant plan this thing…rishtay waqai aasmaanon pe bantay haen…aur jab shadi ka wakt hota hae Allah kee taraf se tab hi hoti hae…so right now the age u r in, u shud focus on geting the best education, shadi apnay time se jab ho gi ho gi, and ur parents mashallah will look into it and find u the best guy inshallah
who knows where he is, in pak/us/can, u cant say..so filhaal concentrate on ur studies and try to get into med school as u have always wished…
as for getting married early if u come to med school in pak..ye bhee kismat kee baat hae…there r ppl from pak who have done medicine frm here who get married late and ppl who r in med school in us/can who r married…so it depends k kab koi acha rishta milta hae aur kab tumhari kismat mein likhi hae shadi..lekin haan u will get done sooner if u go to med school here…lekin us k baad specialisation aur residency k lyay i guess u will go back to canada or america…
as for working after marriage or where u r going to settle waghera…ye bohot bohot doore kee baatein haen…aur insaan ko aglay din ka nai pata hota toh ye baatein toh phir kismat kee hoti haen…jab shadi ka waqt ayay ga koi rishta nazar mein ho ga tab sochna is baray mein…abhee se sochne ka koi faaida nai…abhee ye hae k what u r doing, u shud do well…since u r a student now, give ur best to ur studies and dont get distracted…aur har cheez apnay time pe ho gi inshallah as Allah has wished for u ![]()
best of luck with everything ![]()
irem aapi*