easy...

that term bugs me to the core!

why is a girl labeled easy if she makes an effort?

and not by females.. but males…? if this is the age if equality, then why are women still looked down upon by men if they make the first move??

:mad:

Saddzz,you are sooo easy

to rattle.. :p

i know... :(

I dont believe gender equalities mean anything in practical.

I dunno why a guy would look down upon a girl for making the first move!? That's stupid!

Given most guys are totally clueless in these matters (sadly myself included lol ) I think it's a good thing.

A girl who knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it is a good thing.

^ thank u for the reassurance :k:

dont guys find these girls HOTT

if you're making an effort you're not enough of a challenge and thus you're easy. we're merely being rational.

such guys are immature

didnt Khadija propose to the Prophet?

dunno.. dont know so many of these guys. most of us are the losers who complain about uncool guys who get attention from ladies :bummer: .

but yeah, i can see why you’d resent it.

^ hehe.. they're not uncool

me and a friend were discussing this yesterday, and we thought sometimes its just best for the girl to say it rather than keepnig the regret for the rest of her life

it may sound uncool, but i guess the outcome is the best judge of that :)

both have emotions, feeling. :D
so I dont see why girls can t ask a guy out :o

but, i do think that guys who say such a thing are trofy hunters.
they just want to score, and then brag about it :o

atleast thats what I think :D

Hunting is a male’s natural instinct…A woman acting as a prey should play her cards right…don’t make him run miles…nor do you serve yourself on a plate.
You don’t see a lion running after every sheep he sees in the jungle..sometimes he just passes by…I’m sure you know the reasons as much as I do.

its not abotu serving urself on a plate.. its about taking initiative

in this day and age i find it hard to believe that guys stil want to "hunt" and catch a prey themselves.. its actually even sadder that guys think of females as mere objects to obtain

My whole post was based on an analogy...next time I will spell it out better.

sorry :S i read it at like 9 in the morning.. still half asleep

and i wasnt have a go at u :flower2:

Actually you did have a GO at me :-D but I guess I have read your threads enough to know you better. Its ok :-)

was i? i apologise for that then :)

some girls will go for ANYONE as long as its a guy or atleast seems to be a guy..i think thats easy n its just being an air head..

^ haah thats so true as well

but what i meant was when u know someone well enuff to think "yeah this is the one" and then still wait for them to make the first move.. i think just get it over and done with