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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
^ haah thats so true as well
but what i meant was when u know someone well enuff to think "yeah this is the one" and then still wait for them to make the first move.. i think just get it over and done with
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Sadz, i think if a girl really like dat person well enough and if she wants to get to know him then i think its okey for a girl to take the initiative.
You can make the first move to draw his attention towards you but if you are keep on taking the initiative then the guy might think that you are desperate for him and then he might label you as "easy"
truee but i think our culture is farr away from islam in some ways whr girls still dont get enough rights… and if they do then people will look down to em… and honestly speaking… even for my brothers when a gal’s family show their in em, i kinda feel awkward kee larki walay hokar bol rahay hia pehlay… its just wierd to me but then again if a guy can send proposal then why cant girl… its all because of the way we think… and it all comes from the society where we are living… i guess :rotato:
Sadz, i think if a girl really like dat person well enough and if she wants to get to know him then i think its okey for a girl to take the initiative.
You can make the first move to draw his attention towards you but if you are keep on taking the initiative then the guy might think that you are desperate for him and then he might label you as "easy"
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well said...couldn't have said it expressed it more better.
such guys should get a life and aren't really worth her time. most guys have a very low self esteem and things like these serves as an ecstasy for their low s.esteem:-D