Re: During the rishta process…
If you’ve met him and everything else seemed good about him…then go with the flow and look further into it. You are curious about why he’s made the request…ask him about it…and as Paheli suggested…ask him if he’s okay with providing the same info he asks of you. If you’re not sure about the guy…then talking to him can not only provide clarity but some direction as well…as in you’ll find out if you should let him go or if this has potential. If you can’t get past it, then move on. But if you have doubts that what if there’s potential, etc…then you’ll find out by exploring this further. Hope this helped some. Best wishes.