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^ 
But then it won’t go with my dressing. I usually do wear cotton dupattas that’s if I am wearing shalwar kameez. Chadar is too much to handle..
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DHTN yaar i guess since we take it from a small age we get used to it but trust me even NOW after all these years its not that easy for me to handle 
so i totally get u
but the whole modesty angle comes in yaar coz like in pak u have to wear dupatta otherwise its considered immodest, its a normal part of shalwar kameez innit
keeping it sar pe is difficult for me i am constantly adjusting it all the time lekin khayr there materials which r not that slipperry and then sometimes ppl pin it up un stuff..hmm..coz yaar after all it IS a GOOD thing..u know..to cover ur head..nayki kaa kaam hae..
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Actions depend on your intentions.
Irem whether you wish to wear it, the decision rests with you. I suggest you give it some thought and decide based on how you feel.
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M_Q yeah its difficult to know how i feel coz abt this issue coz u know feelings r like mercury kabhee kuch kabhee kuch :D
but overall i think k for now im gona keep it on my head coz its a nayk thing :)
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Lekin maine pakistan main dekha hai kay most girls either wore burkha or didn’t wear duppatta on head at all. Maine to kabhi duppatta pehna bhi nahi sir pay so I guess I don’t know what it’s like to keep it on for a while and then take it off and feel bad about it.
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DHTN yaar kuch larkyaan pehenti toh haen sar pe but u r right not as many as those who wear burka or who dont cover head but phir bhee kaafi pehenti haen
khair its not a big deal, mera aise hi thread open kerne ka mood ho rha tha :D :)
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I don’t like girls wearing dupatta. It doesn’t allow me to gawk at them. They should dress themselves in sexy outfits for me. 
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^ lol.. 
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thats my goal in life 
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bhaee i have got nothing against irem…i KNOW her plight more than anyone else here…
listen babe, gari aanai sai aur amriki education earinig only 22 thousand sai koi zindagi nahin banti…u need to have clear well-defined ideas of where u want to go…warna yeh dupatta sar sai bar girta rahai ga…
lets all wait for the gre score before thinking kai gari mai aisi kia garmi lagti hai joa footpath pai chaltai huai nahin lagti…
and btw, i am only a quarter pathan…
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Bay pardah jo kal nazar aaYeeN chund bibiyaaN
Akbar gherat-e-qoumi saY zameeN maiN gaR gayaa
poochaa jo, app kaa pardah woh kiYaa huvaa?
kehnaY lageeN, aqal pe mardoN kee paR gayaa
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Irem now send me a pic of u wid dopata pirr i ll tell u wat to do :p… hehe
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isn’t it : Akbar zameen main garat-e- qaumi say gar giya.
grade 7th ki urdu yaad a gai Anwar. 
bet this one’s also from the same text on Akber Ilah Abadi
Rutba jisay daita hai khuda daita hai
Woh dil main farotni ko ja daita hai
Kartay hain tahe maghz sana aap apni
Woh zarf jo khali hai sada daita hai
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Like Irem I also dress very modestly, Specially in summer :roman:
Chadddi our banyaan 
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Irem waisay to tum pehley hi paindo hi ho duppatta leney se koi faraq nahi parey ga
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Dupattay sai insan paindu hau jata hai? News to me.
Wasay this woman is pretty. The other day somebody remarked I looked like somebody from the 60s movies. I dont think it was meant as a compliment.
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How about taking some dopatta training/course... :)
PS: Girls, give me a break...jeans are for coal-miners...wear something nicer like lacha & blouse or something...hmmm
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I hate wearing a duputta on my head, and it never stays on my body. I’m still in awe and shock taht I lasted as long as i did.. :halo: