Re: drum roll please western vs eatern girls
one question... being a strict parent, is that what makes us become "good" pakistanis in western countries? is that what instills the culture in us?
i find it hard to understand this notion... id like to instill good morals in my daughter, but i dont think being strict is the answer.
Like aahmed, i try my best to speak to her in my tooto phooti urdu, lekin watever, i try my best... but im not going to stop her from doing things. Im hoping, by talking to her, by giving her an example, she will learn for herself... like i did