Re: Dress Code
Once I married, it became my pleasure to please my husband. Not that I'd jump off a cliff if he said that would please him but if there were some fashion of dress he preferred, no prob, consider it done. THeres a difference here and a subtle power struggle that you're driving at...so my advice would be....
know who you're marrying and what you're getting yourself into. Never, ever expect big changes to take place simply because of marriage. You're getting what you see NOW. subtle changes may take place and seem easy but big changes, nope. Accept them for what they are or decline the marriage. Know what you want, what you can live with, what you'd be willing to change about YOURSELF before you worry about what you want to change about your potential partner.