I would probably tightly control my girls too, but the point here is, why not do the same to boys?
We are always afraid of the boys OUT THERE who will hurt our daughters. Did we ever stop and think that the boys OUT THERE who are trouble makers are non other than our own boys?
It's funny my Mum once said to me during an argument about this 'well, he can't get pregnant' as tho it was ok for a desi boy to sleep around and have fun and get someone else's daughter pregnant. The attitude is so messed up..
Even after guys staying out till 3/4 in the morning, going from girl to girl, drinking, drugs, pimping out underage schoolgirls (there are parts of the UK where Pakistani boys are notorious for this) etc in the UK it's strangely still us girls who apparently 'don't turn out well' loooool.
If a son gets into trouble with the police the parents will make out it's down to 'racism' or make some other excuse, if he has girlfriends they'll look the other way or say 'he's just having fun' whilst if their daughter is seen with a 'boyfriend' she's often married off to someone she doesn't want, beaten or thrown out. Brilliant, isn't it..