double standards in our society

[fat_spartan]

@PyariCgudia

They should be more careful of their sons.

Let’s see why.

Many of our boys get indoctrinated with hate ideology and go off and become suicide bombers or assist in terrorist activities.

Many of our boys are notorious for spreading around their seed before marriage.

Many of our boys are closet drinkers.

Many of our boys have experimented with drugs.

Some even end up in drug dealing. Believe me. It is true.

Many of our boys don’t focus on their education, as evidenced by how common it is in the States for boys to end up in community college after high school. It’s not like their parents lacked resources in providing for a good high school education. They were just too busy playing around.

Many of our boys are the worst followers of Islam.

I can go on and on. Sure, many of you boys probably are not like this. That’s because you’re all geeks, who spend time on GS as study breaks. But honestly, at the end of the day, you all know creeps who fit this bill.

Actually I don’t know any people like that, particularly for points 1-5. Then for 6 and 7, well there are a lot of people who we could that type of thing about.

It’s about time, our community chains these kids at home as they chain their girls at home. You want to go out with friends? Fine. Mom and Dad are 10 feet behind you in the mall as you walk around with your buddies.

You want to hang out with your friends and “play wii”? Fine, they can come over your house and mom can watch over.

This would just bore a mom. Besides, some moms would probably even find it awkward to sit with their sons and their friends while they play video games. Back in the day, we did use to have gaming sessions that started like after praying isha and then went on until it was almost time for fajr. I don’t see parents (or anybody else who’s not playing) being able to wait through that long a gaming session unless they themselves are gamers. Maybe they’d try it once or twice and then make some excuse to get out of doing it after that.

Mom should learn to use the computer so she can catch evidence of you having visited porn sites.

They should. Parents just seem scared of this type of stuff (well not really scared, they just don’t like going near it). Due to this, the kids are always one step ahead of the parents.

Mom should go through your entire room looking for drugs, porn mags, and beer bottles.

The only time I see that happening is if they are already suspicious of the kids for something.

Mom should drop you off at school and pick you up.

I wouldn’t mind that.

If you are 5 minutes late, she should have your name called on an intercom. If you have a diary, she should be reading it. If you have an account on GS, she should sign on with a name such as “Pixie” and have a hot sexy fairy as the icon and monitor your behavior (I am convinced Pixie is CM’s mom).

So on and so forth. Boys should be raised with an iron fist.

Most of what you’re saying just doesn’t seem realistic. I would suggest instead that they simply try to keep better tabs on what kind of company their sons are keeping. Keep the computer in an open space so that they can see what their kids are looking at. Use parental control mechanisms that available for these things.