Chavy, now stop harassing me.
No need to apologize. Everyone makes mistakes. :halo:
We all know the pros and cons when it comes to cousin marriages - it comes with being a Pakistani. All of us are very very familiar with cousin-marriages and have heard about a variety of stories with very diverse endings. Some people are sooo happy and content and others not-so-much.
What you have said about cousin marriages makes it sound like it’s coming from a person who has no idea what they’re talking about. It sounds like something a gora would say to me if I were to tell him/her I’m marrying a cousin.
The point I was trying to make was to tell you that it’s not all negative and we know that very very well. To come along and say all those extreme-scenarios/situations about cousin marriages isn’t fair. It’s one thing if you’ve had a bad experience, it’s another entirely if you just want to scare and oppose people from cousin marriages.
Anyway, to conclude I just want to say that people should look outside the family first. Cousins should be last resort but nothing wrong with cousin-marriages regardless.