here is the problem, my nagging mother wants me to get engaged from someone back home. i dont know the person (seen the picture, qute).
what do i do
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my parents didn’t see eachother up until their nikkah or shaadi. (one or the other)
so quit complaining 
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eewwwwwwwwwww Kissing cousins alert!
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no, nothing like that, i made sure of it. but i still dont want to. how can you marry someone you dont know or love.
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who said they were cousins 
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i am sure they were both grown up in pak
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are they
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my parents did it without even seeing eachother. i asked ammi how she did it and she said she trusted her family’s judgement. 
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how about u conversate with the pretty-lady and get to know her better? it all starts with verbal conversation. only one way to find out about her ideas, morals, values and personality! COMMUNICATE PAL!
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my parents? no.
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not only that but then if u don't like her...atleast u can give ur mama a logical explanation that 'look-a-here ma' i tried but.....'
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dude, i dont wanna get shot by her brothers or something.
they are from a village, (they have lot of cows)
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Perhaps, you should listen to your mother for once... ask her to let you get to know the girl and, and then ask her to give you some time to take the decision.
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oh shnapz! u talkin about deep down south durrtttyy.... um...You on ur own on dat one bro! i am goin back to pak and my dad's family's straight up Jattz....anything i can do for u while i'm there? start a riot or sumthing? holler back youngen!
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lol wazzy you crack me up 
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thanks dude, i am shah (we can help you with the riot)
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forget the riot...ima let the cows loose n feed the bulls viagra! should do enuff damage to show 'em a lil bit of da wild wild west!
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lol,
thanks wazzyboi
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so yea on a serious note dude: moms can get pretty emotional when it comes to relations sumtimes and u don't wanna break a mom's heart. Just try to make her understand in a way she sees it fair too. Just try to get to know the gurl...i know their family may be backwards or watever but....i'm sure they won't whip u into cream if u just visit n honestly u can tell if ur gonna fit into a certain environment or not if u analyze carefully and observe more than judge. but then again..u know the situation better than anyone..so do what u think is best for u. and um...yea the offer for the wild west/riot is still valid..lemme know on that too!:) lets just say i wanna visit pakistan n leave with a BANG! lol
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:k:
At the very least go back to Pak and interview the girl face to face.