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I think that is not the reason why one should or should not post. Not considerng a post/thread legit and saying it is not legit still is staying on topic, dont you think? I have a right to answer above post of Sara.
Once you've stated your opinion once, that is enough.
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I do not think anywhere I said which yo can make out that I do not like Aurtain. Prove your position and I am right here.
I have a position to dispute OP. What is there in you to argue that she is right?
Show me any proof she is right and I am not?
I don't have to proof anything...especially not to you!!! As I said before if these are your only worries in life than u should thank god..aur allah se darro...allah ko pata ha na ke main kitni mazloom hun ya nahin..so you just shut upp!!!
ps. I am very happy with my english no matter what you have to say about it
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ps. I am very happy with my english no matter what you have to say about it
me too :)
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guys chill.
:mirch:
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ps. I am very happy with my english no matter what you have to say about it
it is good.
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I don't have to proof anything...especially not to you!!! As I said before if these are your only worries in life than u should thank god..aur allah se darro...allah ko pata ha na ke main kitni mazloom hun ya nahin..so you just shut upp!!!
ps. I am very happy with my english no matter what you have to say about it
People with these kind of serious events do remember and don't wait till they have been questioned to tell, "oh by the way, he also used shoes to beat me".
Few issues which are borderline or confusing is fine but posting on forum these serious events instead of finding solution by people around makes no sense.
You can bring better story next time. :)
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^ I've broken my own cardinal rule of ignoring you (and will likely have to say a few Hail Marys to repent), but I figured it was time to respond.
Your posts lack compassion and your advice that a victim must continue to compromise and mould herself to better the situation she's in reflects an attitude that even when someone is wrong, they should be coddled and treated as being right and that a victim should quite frankly lay themselves out in front of their abuser to take even more abuse.
Thanks but no thanks, your kind of advice should be kept to yourself.
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^ Ek din milo to, itnay jootay parainge tumhain, sari umer yaad rakhogay..
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People with these kind of serious events do remember and don't wait till they have been questioned to tell, "oh by the way, he also used shoes to beat me". Few issues which are borderline or confusing is fine but posting on forum these serious events instead of finding solution by people around makes no sense.
You can bring better story next time. :)
Is se bari baat kya ha ke ALLAH ko pata ha such aur jhoot ke bare main...what else do u want me to say? I have started this thread about a recent incident the other one was a year ago and it never happened again!!! Can you please just leave me alone I already have enough to deal with!!! thank you
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^ I've broken my own cardinal rule of ignoring you (and will likely have to say a few Hail Marys to repent), but I figured it was time to respond.
Your posts lack compassion and your advice that a victim must continue to compromise and mould herself to better the situation she's in reflects an attitude that even when someone is wrong, they should be coddled and treated as being right and that a victim should quite frankly lay themselves out in front of their abuser to take even more abuse.
Thanks but no thanks, your kind of advice should be kept to yourself.
Finally my prayers and efforts are heard and you responded. 2 rakaat Shukranay Ke :D
Seriously: One has to believe if that is indeed a victim.
Let me rephrase: People who have genuine and SERIOUS/OBVIOUS issues which can only result in ONE ADVICE do not post to seek advice.;)
Last post of mine in this thread. Please carry on.
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diwana, cut it out. 
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Finally my prayers and efforts are heard and you responded. 2 rakaat Shukranay Ke :D
Seriously: One has to believe if that is indeed a victim.
Let me rephrase: People who have genuine and SERIOUS/OBVIOUS issues which can only result ONE ADVICE do not post to seek advice. ;)
Yes, the day their husbands and inlaws realize how big their issue is, you won't see such threads. Until then...confused multinick individuals will continue posting their problems here to seek our advise.
You should really refrain from coming to this section of the forum. Bohat logon se galiyan sunogay..
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Finally my prayers and efforts are heard and you responded. 2 rakaat Shukranay Ke :D
Seriously: One has to believe if that is indeed a victim.
Let me rephrase: People who have genuine and SERIOUS/OBVIOUS issues which can only result in ONE ADVICE do not post to seek advice.;)
Last post of mine in this thread. Please carry on.
Whether someone is or is not a victim is almost irrelevant, the people posting advice here don't know the OP - they could pass by her and never know that she was the one who wrote on GS.
When people respond, they do so (albeit with limited information) to the circumstance described so that even if the advice isn't taken by the OP, maybe another person in similar circumstances realizes it's not okay to be abused and insulted and mistreated and that they have a right to defend themselves and to find a way to better their circumstances.
Your comments both advising the OP and then attacking the credibility of the OP show your misogynistic tendencies and speak poorly of you and no one else.
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People with these kind of serious events do remember and don't wait till they have been questioned to tell, "oh by the way, he also used shoes to beat me". Few issues which are borderline or confusing is fine but posting on forum these serious events instead of finding solution by people around makes no sense.
You can bring better story next time. :)
This issue occurred a year ago, it has nothing to do with the issues she's having now. The issue she addressed NOW was her husband verbally abusing her daughter. That's why she probably didn't mention it.
Then by the way, she mentioned, hey he did hit me but it happened a year ago and hasn't happened since then.
She's forgiven his abusive behavior but wants to know how to deal with her situation at hand. The things he's been doing lately.
Oh for God's sakes...
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rainbow, if you seek advice dont come here, no one will give you a complete and correct advice -
but you are seeking opinions, there are plenty of ppl here who are compelled even after reading ur half-written/half-understood story
(this includes myself too)
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rainbow, if you seek advice dont come here, no one will give you a complete and correct advice -
but you are seeking opinions, there are plenty of ppl here who are compelled even after reading ur half-written/half-understood story
(this includes myself too)
I am not seeking anything.It was just stupid of me to open a thread to talk about my domestic issues.I was just sad and confused and had no one to talk to.And what happened to me is nothing to make fun of. Its just stupid to assume that anyone has time to make up stories and post them on a forum.
Mods can you please remove or close this thread? I've had enough....
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I am not seeking anything.It was just stupid of me to open a thread to talk about my domestic issues.I was just sad and confused and had no one to talk to.And what happened to me is nothing to make fun of. Its just stupid to assume that anyone has time to make up stories and post them on a forum.
Mods can you please remove or close this thread? I've had enough....
Don't let the fools here scare you off....many of us are not like that, and you've also gotten some good advice from a number of people here....
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Don't let the fools here scare you off....many of us are not like that, and you've also gotten some good advice from a number of people here....
I know and I am very thankful for that...:)
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I know and I am very thankful for that...:)
Btw you didn't answer my question, is your husband British/German national yet?
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..many of us are not like that, and you've also gotten some good advice from a number of people here....
Yes and I am one of those .:)