Re: don’t know what to do…
Whether someone is or is not a victim is almost irrelevant, the people posting advice here don’t know the OP - they could pass by her and never know that she was the one who wrote on GS.
When people respond, they do so (albeit with limited information) to the circumstance described so that even if the advice isn’t taken by the OP, maybe another person in similar circumstances realizes it’s not okay to be abused and insulted and mistreated and that they have a right to defend themselves and to find a way to better their circumstances.
Your comments both advising the OP and then attacking the credibility of the OP show your misogynistic tendencies and speak poorly of you and no one else.