don't know what to do...

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Re: don’t know what to do…

@Mirch

I know a family where same thing was going on . I even opened thread about it. He and she both respect me so I intervened and confronted him on her behalf , he was nice to accept that he has angers issues and will behave. I did not hear anything after my intervention.
You need to find someone who knows you , your family ,and him and who he and his family also respects and that person should be willing to confront him on your behalf. In my case he and his family could not afford to cut any ties with me that is why they listened to me and changed their behavior with her.
I pray to Allah that things improve with you and your home becomes a peaceful home. Ameen.

^^this should probably be your first step

@khawateen

This thread, dumdedees…and then the other one of murder in NJ of a mother of 2… All cases of domestic abuse. U women need to sit up and start respecting ureselves and ure kids so much that no man treat u as inferior pair ki joothis. Up and walk away! Before its too late. Im sorry but playing smart and clever isnt needed when things go as far as gaaliya and verbal abuse of a 1 yr old! Its time for ultimatums…and some hard decisons… For the betterment of all.

^^ but if all else fails …don’t forget khawateen and diamond321’s words of wisdom …once an abuser, always an abuser…and u put a foot down especially when it starts touching ur child

your child needs to grow up ..knowing that a woman deserves to be respected and that when she’s not …she doesnt behave like a doormat but instead chooses to stand up for herself like her mother did