Re: don’t know what to do…
okay so he hasnt been physically abusive but he has resorted to verbal abuse …
i say no to any kind of abuse…specially when there’s a child involved that is not only a witness but ur hubby seems to have started abusing her too…it seems like he has little to no respect for women in general…
i feel like here are your options:
- stay with him and be miserable for the rest of your life because you will have to take his abuse he’ll never change
- take a break from him for a bit see if he comes to take you back…go back and observe him to see if he has changed
- involve an imaam or something and see if they can knock some sense into your hubby
- walk out on him and temporarily mourn ur broken marriage…but this will be temporary mourning as u will have freed urself and ur child from abuse
even if u can in some convoluted way justify the abuse instigated against you… how can you watch when that abuse starts to touch your child?